Elevating Our Spirit: A Reflection on Black Women’s Power, Healing, and the Lessons from Tyler Perry's “Straw”
- Kayla Victoria
- Jun 12, 2025
- 3 min read
Updated: Jun 12, 2025
I want to clarify that I'm not against Tyler Perry movies. Terry Perry produces many great films that resonate with many people. However, I don't recommend watching the film Straw because I believe it's essential for women to be mindful of what we consume and how it impacts our spiritual and emotional well-being. I've always loved the plays before the movies—they made me laugh and connect on a different level. But this Tuesday, I watched a review by Queen Po titled "STRAW SPIRITUAL Review: Hidden Messages, PLOT TWIST, Psychosis, Intersectional Trauma, & More."
I highly recommend that Black women watch this review. It shed light on the unprotected state of Black women in America—how we often carry so much burden silently. When we speak out about our feelings and concerns, we're frequently dismissed or expected to continue being strong and resilient. While capable, it doesn't mean we should be exploited or taken for granted. Many of us operate in survival mode, trying to navigate the matrix of life, often from a space of pain or trauma rather than from our hearts.
Women and children should be the most protected in society. I'm not saying men are unimportant—they are essential partners in life and raising children. Women, as nurturers and multipliers, give birth to the next generation—innocent children who deserve safety, love, and protection. Recognizing this divine role is vital for our collective elevation.
After watching the review, I was overwhelmed with emotion and tears. Spirit led me to the Bible, where Revelation 21:4 (NLT) states: "He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever." In that moment, I felt deeply loved and seen by the Most High, reminded that Mother and Father made no mistakes. We must not allow anyone or false narratives to trick us out of our divine purpose or our rightful place.
Many conflicts are designed to keep us small and disconnected from our true power. Women should remember that we are precious and our energy is powerful. Our energy influences everything around us. It's essential that we are intentional about where we invest our time and emotions, moving from a balanced and healing space. Continuous self-investment—spiritually, emotionally, and mentally—is necessary for our growth.
We Are Elevating
When I say we are elevating, I mean that we have to become more aware. We should educate ourselves, make decisions aligned with our morals and values, and reclaim our power. Women, particularly those who are not wealthy or privileged, are under heavy attack. Watching films like Straw stirs up negative, deep-seated emotions and trauma wounds. These influences can hinder our progress if we don't know how to heal ourselves or alchemize pain into positivity.
Think of it like recovery from substance abuse—if you're working toward sobriety, it's not wise to put yourself in environments that tempt or trigger old habits. Similarly, we should be cautious about what we allow into our mental and emotional space. We must guard our peace and healing. Let's heal, ladies. Our ancestors have prayed for us. We are walking prayers because of those who came before us. We carry their hopes and sacrifices, and it's our divine duty to give the world our best. We have to continue to pray for this generation, the next, and generations to come.
Our elevation depends on our awareness, healing, and intentional choices. Let us honor ourselves, support one another, and walk boldly in our divine purpose. The journey to healing and empowerment begins within. Let's walk it together with faith, purpose, and love.
Stay uplifted, and remember: We are elevating!
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